We were living for a school trip and right before we left we were all in a biiig taverna and my bf which recently broke up with me had brought his dog to see him a little more before we'd leave... And the dog started going here and there but wouldn't touch other people, and he was following it to keep it in sight. So he awkwardly said to someone "he only goes to people he knows" because that someone tried to pet it but his dog didn't stay. And his dog came and sat on my legs and hugged me. I pet it for a while, said hiii etc and hugged it back. I looked into his eyes as he was looking at me petting the dog. Everyone started leaving the tavern and only we two stayed. Eventually he sat on my legs and hugged me. He gave me a forehead kiss and said "Σα-" (σχεδόν σαγαπώ) and then stopped. And I replied "Σα..?". He looked at me kinda hurt, kinda confused and I think he didn't fully say it. Then we hugged again and I smiled/laughed and kissed him on the lips. I said "I have a proposition, but don't say anything" he said "what" and I was a bit embarrassed so I repeated "ye but please don't say anything" and I think he nodded. So I replied in his ear "wanna get back together but only me and you knowing about it? It will be a secret". And he looked at me kinda like he wanted but couldn't agree. So he replies "και τι θα γίνει με τ.. γκόμεν..." But I didn't clearly hear if it was τόν γκόμενο or την γκόμενα. So I look at him angry/mad suspiciously and say "ΤΗΝ ΓΚΟΜΕΝΑ? ΕΧΕΙΣ ΓΚΟΜΕΝΑ??" And he said "ΌΧΙ όχι... Τους δικούς σου...." and I really didn't understand what he meant. It was almost like he meant "Τους δικούς σου γκόμενους". So I asked "Τι εννοείς...?" And he looked at me kinda confused, not knowing what to say or how to say what he wanted to tell me, AND RIGHT BEFORE HE REPLIED I WOKE UP. However I'm sure that when he said No No about him having a gf (at least in the dream) he was being truthful. Cause he said it instantly, and with a tone almost like he was surprised that I even thought about it...
Dreams often serve as reflections of our subconscious thoughts, emotions, and unresolved conflicts. In your dream, several key elements reveal deep insights into your feelings regarding your recent breakup and lingering attachment to your ex-boyfriend.
The Setting: The Taverna
The taverna symbolizes a place of gathering, connection, and perhaps nostalgia. Being there with your ex-boyfriend suggests that you still hold moments from your past relationship dear. It may also reflect a desire to reconnect with shared experiences and feelings.
The Dog
The dog in your dream represents loyalty, affection, and intuition. The fact that it only approached you rather than others may signify a continued emotional bond with your ex. His attempt to keep the dog close mirrors his attempts to maintain closeness with you, indicating that he might still have feelings but is unsure of how to navigate this.
Choreographed Intimacy
When you both embraced, and he gave you a forehead kiss, it signifies a degree of comfort and familiarity that may still exist. This intimacy, even post-breakup, shows that there are unresolved feelings between you. His partial confession ("Σα-" or "almost I love you") further emphasizes the complexity of his emotions. The pause in his statement suggests uncertainty, and your response reflects both your curiosity and your lingering feelings.
The Proposition
Your suggestion of rekindling the relationship secretly indicates a longing for a renewal of intimacy while grappling with the complexities of your current reality. You wish for a second chance but want to keep it out of public knowledge, perhaps due to fear of judgment or complications with others.
The Confrontation
The moment of confrontation regarding possible new relationships ("γκόμενα") brings out insecurities and jealousy. His surprise at your accusation suggests that he might not have moved on yet, or perhaps he is confused about his own feelings. Your response indicates a protective instinct over your emotions and a desire for clarity.
The Ambiguity
The confusion in communication, especially right before you woke up, represents the unresolved issues and uncertainty between you two. It leaves the dream open-ended, mirroring how you might feel about your relationship status and future.
Overall Emotional Undertones
The dream captures a spectrum of emotions: longing, confusion, nostalgia, and jealousy. There’s a desire for closeness, but also an awareness of the complexities of relationships—especially post-breakup. The intensity of your emotions speaks to a need for resolution, whether that means moving forward separately or rekindling old flames.
In conclusion, this dream serves as a vivid manifestation of your subconscious processing ongoing feelings for your ex-boyfriend. It highlights unresolved attachments, the desire for clarity in your relationship status, and the complexity of emotional connections. Embrace these insights as a chance for self-reflection and consideration of what you truly want moving forward, both for yourself and in relationships.